Painting time.
Dollar store finds
keeps summer boredom at bay.
Doesn't every girl wear cleaning gloves to pick up their sisters from VBS?!
(Take note she's in a dress!!! For some reason Little L doesn't share her big sisters' affection for fancy frocks. She prefers t-shirts specifically ones with Disney characters plastered on them accompanied by a comfy pair of shorts which she calls pants. I try to honor my children's clothing preferences and their attempt at clothing self expression...to a point. This girl does not like any of the dresses and she has a LOT of them, mostly hand-me-downs from sister 1 and sister 2 and I know this a power struggle issue. So every week or so I give her two dresses to choose from and tell her to pick one. After a little tantrum throwing, I wrangle her into one of them. She needs to remember and often be reminded exactly who's running this show. On this day I gave her two to choose from and she very nicely chose this purple one. She called it the 'pants dress'....it has matching bloomers, works for me!)
Amongst a report card, a tattered name tag and various leftover school supplies were lots RB of S.
[RB of S was coined by my awesome mom friend Maria. It stands for Random Bits of Shit (or Stuff depending on how ever much you like to curse). It's all the junk that ends up in your kid's possession. Happy Meal toys, birthday party gift bag contents, and various other small articles generally created in China fall into this category. Both my older children are experts in accumulating RB of S.]
Back to our regular scheduled program... in the never looked in front pocket of N's backpack was every cupcake topper that she had received during the year long classmate birthday celebrations. I think she thought there would be a prize for keeping them all.
There were also many tiny, shiny or sparkly items. A spare earring, colorful paperclips, a tiny snowman charm, a keyring, various rocks and shells and a few pencils. I ask, "Nat is this all the stuff you pick up and keep from the playground?" Outraged she responds, "NO Mom!!........It's from the floor of the school bus........It's really cool in the afternoon since the middle schoolers ride before us and leave good stuff."
Lovely.
Here is the compromise of what she is allowed to keep somewhere in her room. The rest of it has been sent to where most RB of S live out their lives...in the trash can.
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N, "Mom, are you and dad secret agents when I'm asleep?"
Me, "If I told you, it wouldn't be a secret!"
V, "Wow Mom, you are in a really good mood today."
Me, "Really? I notice I'm in a better mood when I have a cup of coffee in the morning." V, "You should drink a cup of coffee EVERY morning!"
I've started a new behavior plan with the girls to help eliminate the whines and cattiness between them. They earn pebbles for good behavior and attitudes to fill a jar which equals a reward (it's working like a charm!!) Upon explaining the system N asked me, "Can I earn pebbles for saying funny things and making you laugh?"
N was balancing some toys on her extended arm and I joked to her, "Nat, if you keep practicing we can sign you up & you can work for the circus!" She responds, "Or Red Lobster." Me, "What, why Red Lobster?" Her, "The workers at Red Lobster balance plates on their arms!"
The girls did great at their 2nd swim meet taking 5 or 6 seconds off their previous times. I was told them, "wow, you did much better and really you haven't practiced much since we were away at the beach and you've had VBS and missed a lot of practices." N responds, "Guess we don't really have to practice at all huh mom?!"


We went to visit the Wimbledon property which has a swamp for a pool with literally hundreds of tadpoles in it. We walked the property for 10 minutes or so and got back in the car. A few minutes later N asks me "what do baby frogs eat?".
"Why N?" I ask.
V replies, "Mom she has frogs!!"
"How many Nat?" I demand.
"Only 8 or 9, but don't worry they are now in the play kitchen pot."
Lovely
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Tadpole update- At around 8pm we were down to 5 living tadpoles. We convinced her to release them into the lake behind our house. Long live the tadpoles.
Starting today and thanks to Louise's generosity and the Great Houses Switch aka Too Much Furniture Event of 2010...(drum roll please) we now have a table that seats SIX in our eat in kitchen!
She also had the honor of christening the set with it's 1st stain- just 13 minutes after it was set up. So proud of her...it's a new 'how long till a new piece of furniture gets a stain' record for our family. Oh and it was "milk"!
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Happy Times with the Old Table
Oct 2006
Jan 2007
Oct 2008
June 2009
The beloved four seater will shortly be available on Craigs List... 20 bucks and it can be yours!
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